notes at the end of a journey.

expectations and giving.

friendship, dating, marriage exist because of a two-way circuitry. feelings, sensations, butterflies in the stomach, happiness, laughter, complicity, long nights spent trying to change the world, empathy, compassion, support: all of this is flow of energy. the relativity principle makes the universe work. give and take, receiving in giving is the reality. the majority of people thinks this is pure dream, belief and illusion cause they assume that a relationship is based on expectations.

devilish, dominant ego is what makes people go into a relationship with expectations, with a definition of what it is due to be.

"you have expectations that I do not want to meet", "your expectations are different than mine", "women go out once and want to get married"

it is nonsense.

maturity, originality, open minded predisposition, lessons from the past, evolution should lead us to realize that the moment you frame a relationship it will never work. it becomes a burden, a bore, an imposition, routine. a mother can be a cool friend, a wife can be your accomplice, a friend can be your teacher or viceversa. you just have to see it and let it happen.

it is so far deep as a concept that maybe it is easier to just not go for it.

Si por apostar todo al amor verdadero perdiste amor y vida. No llores niña mía, pues más perdió aquel que no supo ver tu amor verdadero.

these verses in Spanish mean: if for posting everything on true love you lost love and life, don’t cry, since the one who couldn’t recognize your true love lost more.

somebody told me: you cannot lose Love, because loving is giving and it’s within you. you can lose with wanting, requesting, expecting, pretending because it depends on the other person and on expectations.